February 17, 2015

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Page 6 Models Dating Survey 101

Dating Survey 101: I wanted to ask our girls about dating and what their opinions were on certain subjects. I apologize in advance if the questions and answers are a little “out there” but I wanted honesty and lets just say thats what I got! :) Natalie What do you look for in a guy?

“There is nothing more I find attractive in a man than confidence & a charming smile. I also look for achievable ambitions & if you can make me laugh!”

What is your favorite feature on a guy?

“Strong sexy arms make me weak at the knees. Whoo, I guess its just the feeling of them wrapped around me tight that I love so much”

What is your ideal first date?

“I have experienced some outrageous first dates! Honestly you have to go above and beyond to impress me. In my eyes a successful date is just enjoy each others time laughing, sharing stories & yummy food”

Do you think that in a relationship that the guy should financially support you or should it be equal?

“My parents share absolutely everything down to their last name. There is no yours, or mine, only ours! Financially I plan to help my future hubby!”

Do you believe in “Online Dating”?

“Personally, no! I do not have a Tinder nor do I need one.I usually delete messages That I receive via Facebook. I want a man to approach me in person and ask me out, not through his computer. I told you I look for confidence in a man!”

Are you more of a “texter” or a “over the phone talker”?

“Texting is convenient but I love hearing my honeys voice on the phone. For me its much more intimate. I would much rather hear about my boyfriends day than read about it in a text.”

Do all of your friends date?

“Of course my girls & I have date night! Haha girls night out is the best excuse to catch up on boy dreams, some wine and Disney movies”

Would you date someone that your family disapproves of?

“Stop it! Haha of course my family has hated a guy but that didn’t stop me! It should have, but we always want what we can’t have. I’ve made the mistakes and now that I’m older I respect their opinion because we both only want what’s best for me!”

Who pays on a date?

“Once you make me your girlfriend, I have no problem splitting the cost. I might whine a little at first but in the end I really like to surprise my honey and treat him on a fun night out!”

What is a nonnegotiable?

“I hate driving! Feel free to take my car, but don’t you dare as me who’s driving! That’s nonnegotiable babe!”

What is an embarrassing moment you have had on a date?

“I was so embarrassed but my boyfriend had dropped me off after a study date. It was one of the first times we hung out together and started to develop feelings, well I was trying to successfully climb out of his car when my shoe got stuck on his book bag and completely popped off my foot! I didn’t know what else to do but turn red & hop to my car. He made me laugh so hard!”

What are deal breakers with a guy for you?

“Crazy ex-girlfriend just need to disappear! Along with sketchy men. It’s a clear sign if you changed my name to Nathan in your contacts that you probably shouldn’t date anyone…uh ever!”

Courtney What do you look for in a guy?

“Well, this is a loaded question.  What I looked for in guys when I was in my teens & early to mid twenties is much different than the man I am blessed to have now or what I think I would look for if I were still single. I looked for all the wrong things in the past. I’m not sure I knew what I even wanted until love found me. I know now what I want, because I have it. I was blessed with more than my heart ever could imagine. My boyfriend (and love of my life) has upstanding character, he puts me before himself, he loves me for who I am & has no intention of changing me (nor do I feel like I have to). He respects me. He makes me a better person. He is grounded in who he is as a person & his beliefs. His beliefs & the way he lives his life, lines up with how I want to live my life. I feel comfortable to be without makeup & to sing in front of him (two things I’m not comfortable to do in front of most people). It’s easy & nothing is ever forced. He is my best friend. (did I mention that he is handsome too!?!!) They say you’ll know when you’ve found the right one when you find them… well, I totally didn’t think that was true until he came along. Now, I can confirm that statement to be true!”

What is your favorite feature on a guy?

“Dimples/jawline (my man has both! <3)”

What is your ideal first date?

“Can I be honest? I hated first dates. I’m so glad I am past that point. I’m more of a second date & beyond kind of girl. Let’s get past the false pretenses & down to the heart of who a person really is right off the bat… instead of wasting time on creating a façade of who you really are, just to have that come to light later on. More directly answering your question though, a good first date for me was when I felt like I could be myself & have good conversation.”

Do you think that in a relationship that the guy should financially support you or should it be equal?

“I think in a dating scenario, the guy should always pay your way on dates & any activities you do together. It is polite for the girl to offer to pay, but the guy should politely decline. I think it is up to the individuals in the relationship to decide how financially intertwined they want to be outside of marriage. For me though, once married, I will always want to contribute financially to the relationship however I can.”

Do you believe in “Online Dating”?

“My philosophy has always been: People managed to get by & find people to date/their mate before the Internet existed. I think I’ll be just fine on my own… and no, Christian dating sites, I do not think God needs your help. Lol I know that times are different, but I think if people spent more time getting involved in their community or in social groups than spending time making a profile on the internet, their chances might be just as likely to meet nice people. Sometimes (like in my case) you meet the love of your life in the random & unlikely places… like on the sidewalk right outside of the place you work ”

Are you more of a “texter” or a “over the phone talker”?

“None of the above. Let’s hang & talk in person.”

Do all of your friends date?

“Yes, my single friends definitely do. But I’m of the age where most of my friends are married & having kiddos.”

Would you date someone that your family disapproves of?

“I have in the past, but if I was in the right frame of mind when I was younger, I would have never dated someone my family disapproves of. Their opinion means a lot to me, but obviously didn’t before my frontal lobe was developed! You live- you learn!”

Who pays on a date?

“Like I stated in a previous question, I think the guy should always pay your way on dates & any activities you do together. It is polite for the girl to offer to pay, but the guy  -just as quickly- should politely decline.”

What is a nonnegotiable?

“Hygiene. Keep it clean, guys. I’m all about that mountain man look & I’m all for guys being guys. The more scruffy & manly, the better… but take a dang shower. There’s nothing like the scent of man fresh out of the shower!”

What is an embarrassing moment you have had on a date?

“I can’t remember a time that I was personally embarrassed, but I have been embarrassed for the guy. I was unwillingly on a blind date with a medical “professional”. After (what seemed like hours) of this guy talking about himself & barely even taking breaths in his monologue for me to sneak a word in… he proceeds to show me graphic pictures of  tumors that he has removed from one of his patients all while we were at the dinner table. If I wasn’t already disgusted with his narcissism, this display of graphic & confidential material sent me over the edge. I felt like I was in dating hell. Needless to say, I cut the date as short as I could and made sure there was never a second date.”

What are deal breakers with a guy for you?

“Arrogance, lack of respect & lack of turn taking dialogue. I’m not interested in listening to a monologue on how wonderful you are. Dating is about getting to know each other & I think especially in the beginning, it should be more about the girl. I’m old school…Guys are supposed to do the pursuing, not the other way around.”

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{{{Hope you enjoyed this dating survey as much as I did!}}}

Until next time lovasssss

xoxo,

Alyssa



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